A ruptured brain aneurysm is a very serious condition that can have a life-altering impact. I should know – I’ve been through it. In March of 2018, I had a ruptured brain aneurysm and it changed my life forever.
Thankfully, I survived but my boyfriend and friends disappeared. The experience left me feeling isolated and alone. I felt like I had to explain myself to everyone, and I didn’t know how to connect with people anymore.
But then I found a Meetup Group for people who were interested in the same kind of things. Groups that liked hiking or camping. Others that liked going out to bars and restaurants. Some that liked concerts and local bands. I met new people. And everything changed.
I finally found a group of people who understood me and didn’t need me to explain myself. We had fun and encourage each other to enjoy life and I’ve found new friends that I never would have had without this group.
How ruptured brain aneurysms ruin social life.
Living with a ruptured brain aneurysm has a serious impact on social life. Not only do you have to manage the physical and emotional impacts of the aneurysm itself, but it can also disrupt social activities. It’s hard to go out and socialize when you can’t remember things or when you have trouble concentrating. You may have less energy or stamina, making it hard to do activities that you used to enjoy. And you may even have difficulty with interpersonal relationships, as it can be hard for the people around you to understand the changes that you’re going through.
That’s why the Meetup group I found so important. It’s a safe place to connect with people who you don’t have to explain what you’re going through. They provide meetups with others that enjoy the same things which can make all the difference in your recovery. In addition to new stories and experiences, these groups can also provide great times that can help you manage the changes you’re experiencing. It’s a great way to keep building and strengthening your social life even in the face of physical and emotional challenges.
My experience socially after brain aneurysm
The ruptured brain aneurysm did indeed cause issues in relation to my social life. It was like I had to start all over again. I had to explain to people my condition and why I relied heavily on my family and friends for support. It slowly wore me out, having to explain the same things over and over again.
So, when I found the Meetup group, it was a refreshing change. Everyone in the groups I joined was going through something and just wanted to go out and have fun. I felt like these groups were my escape. We could talk to each other, share our stories and experiences, and build friendships without worrying about being judged. It was a huge relief.
This Meetup groups app changed my life in a huge way. It was no longer difficult to make friends and build relationships. I never had to explain my condition and my friends fully understood the kind of support I needed. It has given me the confidence to go out and socialize more. I am now able to feel safe in the company of people and the ethereal feeling of belonging to the group is so satisfying.
I am so grateful to the people I’ve met at these groups for giving me the strength and courage to live in a world that can be so insensitive and judgmental. I wouldn't have been as confident socially as I am today had I not found this group.
Meeting new friends from a meetup app
The internet and advancement in technology has made it easier to widen our social circles. I recently discovered the Meetup App, which allows you to find people with similar interests and make friends. This has been incredibly helpful as finding like-minded people can be difficult.
The Meetup App has many groups you can join with people who live in close proximity to you and share your interests. You can search for groups that have already been set up or create your own to find new friends.
In my case, I found a groups specifically for individuals trying to get out, listen to bands and have fun.
It was the perfect match for me!
I was able to find people in my area who were just wanting to get out, build thier social life with others that liked the same things. I was able to connect with them, share my new experiences, and be understood.
At first, I was a little hesitant since I didn't know anyone in these groups. But everyone was very friendly and kind, so I was able to open up and make a few great friends.
Today, I am part of a vibrant and growing community and I am really enjoying it.
The Meetup App is a great tool for finding like-minded people and creating a meaningful connection. It's a great way to make new friends without having to worry about explaining your condition or being judged.
Why meetup groups are important to me
Meetup groups are an integral part of living life with a ruptured brain aneurysm. Through community, we can find the strength to push through our obstacles and gain a new understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
Here are the top five reasons why meeting up with others is beneficial:
1. Provides companionship: Meeting other individuals who are enjoying meeting new people that enjoy the same things can reduce feelings of isolation, encourage understanding and provide moral support throughout the traumatic experience.
2. Aids in the healing process: Connecting with other people, sharing experiences and discovering new things to do can take your mind off of things and can be invaluable when it comes to the process of recovery.
3. Helps form strong relationships: Connecting with individuals with similar interests promotes feelings of belonging and helps to foster strong friendships.
4. Offers a platform to educate: Meetups offer an opportunity to learn more about others and eventually talk about aneurysms and warning signs and also discuss the difficulties of day to day life.
5. Promotes a more positive outlook: Connecting with others who are also wanting to meet others and find new things to do can provide hope and a more positive outlook. It is a great way to stay motivated and inspired, as well as being able to have meaningful conversations.
Meetup groups are a great way to stay connected and supported throughout your journey. In the future, these connections may be an invaluable source of happiness.
I didn’t have to explain what happened to me. New people didn’t see my changes.
Navigating social interactions is always tricky, especially when you have had a life-altering experience such as a ruptured brain aneurysm. With that being said, I can say that meeting new people with the same experience in meetup groups has been immensely helpful in providing a safe space to talk.
Having a place where I don’t have to explain what happened to me, and people didn’t see my changes, was a relief. And in some cases, even a positive environment. With this kind of environment, I didn’t even have to explain why I felt the way I did. I just felt relieved to be in a space where I could connect with people who could relate and understand.
With my ruptured brain aneurysm, I found a safe place, where I could be open and honest. A place where I didn't have to worry about how much perspiration I was producing and how I was coming across.
Through meeting people who have gone through similar experiences and others that enjoyed the local environment events I was able to break down barriers, to start talking and really listening to each other. The meetup groups have become an essential part of my journey and how I continue to live with my aneurysm. It has allowed me to make meaningful connections and learn from individuals who had similar experiences. It is the kind of support that no doctor or therapist can ever give.